在activity里获取adapter的控件

listview.setOnItemClickListener(new AdapterView.OnItemClickListener() {
    @Override
    public void onItemClick(AdapterView<?> adapterView, View view, int i, long l) {

       ImageView image= (ImageView) list_receiverInfo.getChildAt(i).findViewById(R.id.iv_select);
        image.setImageResource(R.mipmap.selected);
    
    }
});