25件让你逐渐成熟的事情

原文叫《你正在成功的25个标志》。
25 Signs You're Succeeding At Life (Even If It Doesn't Feel Like It)

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我更喜欢改成《25件让你逐渐成熟的事情》


1.Your relationships are less dramatic than they use to be.
你的伴侣关系没有过去那么戏剧化了。


2. You may not have as much money as you want but you live a rich life.
你或许没有你想的那么有钱，而你却过着丰富的生活。


3. You're not afraid to ask for help and support.
你不怕寻求帮助和支持。


4. Where you live feels like home.
你生活的地方感觉就像家。


5.You’ve raised your standards.
你提高了你的标准。


6.You let go of things that don’t make you feel good.
你放下了那些让你感觉不好的事物。


7.You have moments where you appreciate who you see in the mirror.
当你望着镜子时，你有欣赏镜子里面那个人的时刻了。


8.You're working on limiting your inner critic and consciously choosing more positive thoughts.
你有限制自己内在的批评，并有意识地选择更正面的想法。


9. You’ve learned that setbacks and failure are part of self-growth.
你懂得了挫折和失败是自我成长的一部分。


10. You have a support system that includes people who would do anything for you.
你有一套支持的系统，里面包括那些肯为你做任何事的人。


11. You hear “I love you” often, from friends, family or a partner.
你经常听到“我爱你”，从你的朋友、家人或者伴侣那里。


12. You've accepted what you can’t change, but change what you can.
你接受了那些你不能改变的事，但是去改变那些你能改变的事。


13. You don’t complain much, but instead focus on solutions.
你不怎么抱怨，而是专注于解决办法。


14. You don’t blame your parents, and accept them for who they are.
你不埋怨你的父母，而是如实接受他们是怎样的人。


15. You stopped caring about what others think of you.
你停止在意别人怎么看你。


16. You're happy for your exes when they move on.
当你的前任伴侣继续他们的人生时,你为他们高兴。


17. You can celebrate others' successes.
你能够为他人的成功而庆贺。


18. You allow yourself to feel your feelings and are comfortable sharing them.
你允许自己感受自己的感受，而且可以自在分享它们。


19. You have passions that you pursue.
你有自己热爱的喜好。


20. You're able to accept compliments without deflecting
你能够接受称赞，而不会飘飘然。


21. You have things to look forward to.
你有你期待的事情。


22. You have goals that have come true.
你有已经实现了的目标。


23. You have empathy for others.
你对他人有同理心（能体会到别人的感受）。


24. You feel connected to your work.
你感觉与你的工作有连接（有意义、有共鸣）。


25. You love deeply and open yourself up to be loved by others.
你爱得深，也敞开让自己被他人爱着。


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