PHP 二维数据差集

$arr = [
    ["name" => "李四", "phone" => '5555', "address" => 'aaa' ],
    ["name" => "张三", "phone" => '6666', "address" => 'bbb' ],
    ["name" => "老王", "phone" => '7777', "address" => 'ccc' ],
];
$filter = [
    ["name" => "李四", "phone" => '3333', "address" => 'xyz' ],
    ["name" => "王三", "phone" => '6666', "address" => 'xyz' ],
];

$arr = array_filter($arr, function($i) use ($filter) {
    return !in_array($i['name'], array_column($filter, 'name')) && !in_array($i['phone'], array_column($filter, 'phone'));
});
var_dump($arr);