每天一剂Rails良药之Self-referential Many-to-Many Relationships

考虑一个UserStory，Person 1添加Person 2为好友，怎样让Person 2的好友列表中也有Person 1？
这里Person对自己Many-to-Many关联。

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class AddPeopleAndTheirFriendsRelationship < ActiveRecord::Migration
def self.up
create_table :people do |t|
t.column "name", :string
end
create_table :friendships do |t|
t.column "person_id", :integer
t.column "friend_id", :integer
end
end
def self.down
drop_table :people
drop_table :friendships
end
end

class Person < ActiveRecord::Base
has_and_belongs_to_many :friends,
:class_name => "Person",
:join_table => "friendships",
:association_foreign_key => "friend_id",
:foreign_key => "person_id",
:after_add => :be_friendly_to_friend,
:after_remove => :no_more_mr_nice_guy
def be_friendly_to_friend(friend)
friend.friends << self unless friend.friends.include?(self)
end
def no_more_mr_nice_guy(friend)
friend.friends.delete(self) rescue nil
end
end
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这里:after_add和:after_remove是不是有点filter的意思？