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These days I am thinking about the essense of the life.
Then I find when I was young I was full of the dreams.
I dreamed I could get what I wanted at that time.
These dreams drove me to move forward constantly.
These timeframe was mainly focus on the university time.
Recently I find my dreams become less and my regret become more than past.
It must because I am older.
The more I think the past the more regretful I felt.
I regret I did not learn english well when I was in the primary school.
I regret I did not study hard then go to a better middle school.
I know it is useless to think of these but they are really make me crazy and give me stress.
What I need is inner peace.
I do not believe you have no any regret from childhood to present.
Enjoy the present instead of the regret the past.
let go what should be let go in order to get the inner peace.
Let the inner peace and improve the efficiency of the work or learning.
I found the inner peace is important in our daily life.
Many things become messy If we can not keep inner peace with us.
The time become shorter or less but we did nothing.
I can not find what is different between today and yesterday.
It is easier to find the others making a big progress.
They made a difference but we did not.
Sometime we want to try our best to follow.
We do not like to lag behind of the others.
We can use this to encourage us but Do not make yourself follow the others steps.
Try to create your own way to move forward.
Please belive the tiny improvement can make the big change.
Changing your efficiency start from keeping the inner peace.
The first thing you can do is let go of your personal feeling about things in order to give the thing essense.
We 'd like to put a lot of our own feeling when we look something good or bad.
In fact the essense of things have no feeling.
If we put our own feeling we will make a wrong decision because our feeling will be changed with time.
On many occasion we are craving for specific things.
We would felt regret if we can not get it no matter how hard we work.
I always would think it is always good but do not forget it also will be changed with the time.
On the contrary ,we would got what I wanted But we also find it is not worthwhile enough sometimes when we got it through so much hard work.
We always become regretful or depression as soon as we thouht of these and the more we think of this the more we reluctant to open up to new things we should chase in. we get ourself into a cycle of regret and miss out the beauty of the things themself.
Let go of the past.do not forget the time is one dimension. We can not go back and redo what we have done.What we can do is only moving forward.
I like image and like said if.
If it is a then I can get b. If it is c then I can get d but it is e actually.
My wife must have remind of me NO if as soon as she heard my such said.
she is right. there is no a actually then how can we get the concludision b from a virtual condition a.
Then let the past go is best way currently.
Do not let the bad feeling affect your future.
Forgive what you have done. It does not mean you erase the past or forget what has happened ,It just means you let go of the regret and moving on to a better place.
You can not control the actions of others so we should not try.
But we can control ourselves if we try.
Let us focus on the present. The past is over do not reflect on the past.
It isn’t happening any more except in your mind.
Do not think of this or they bring a lot of stress to you.
Find the joy in life now.
Let the peace enter your life and go forward.