[英语阅读]Relish solitude

   Marriage, whether for men or women, is very ordinary. However, not everyone can get happy life through the common way. Sometimes, keeping solitude maybe is a better choice for someone.

   Someone gets married to others just on account for the moment impulse. Such a marriage is doomed to get a bad result, while someone get married, for he/she doesn't think he/she can put up with solitude ever. So, he/she gets married hastily in order to run away from the temporary loneliness. They treat their marriage as inconsequential. Like this kind of marriage, it is also sad. Those people will ultimately be slave of marriage, and then lead a mediocre and unambitious life. Therefore, I firmly believe I prefer to enjoy this solitude rather than get a sad marriage and fall victim to the marriage. Furthermore, I find it has a lot of benefits to be alone the greater part of the time as well.

  Far away from marriage, you can possess more freedom, which is most attractive for most of bachelors. You can sit anywhere as you pleases and don't be necessary to care others; you can decorate your room however you like; you can also invite your friends to take a stroll on garden or watch a film without considering someone will be jealous you. The most ordinary cause of a single life is liberty, especially in certain self—pleasing and humorous minds. So, if you are that kind of people, you would better to be unmarried and relish comforts by solitude.

  Far away from marriage, you can devote all you energy to those work you like; you can spend most of your time and energy doing your hobbies and you never worry about some family's trifles. If you are tired of city's life --- about those noisy, bustles, you can wander about anywhere you want, because there is none of responsibilities on you. If you have been married, as Bacon said, you that have wife and children have given hostages to fortune; for they are impediments to great enterprises, either of virtue or mischief. Generally speaking, the best works, and of greatest merit have proceeded from the unmarried men. As the Chinese saying goes, a capable man feels discouraged by immersed in love. Certainly, someone probably thinks that a successful man should be supported by his wife standing behind him. But, as far as I am concerned, unmarried men are easier to succeed as Bacon said.

  Someone is of the opinion that unmarried men or women are not aware of love. In reality, this is an absolute wrong opinion. Sometimes, the reason why we don't get married is not that we don't understand love, but we cherished love so much that we are afraid of losing it. Sometimes, the reason why we don't want to marry is that we have realized the marriage is not only a matter of the two people, a house and a simple life; it is a matter of the communication of spirit, the enormous mutually responsibility. Marriage is the promise of two people's whole life. So, keeping solitude is at least responsible to you.

  At last, far away from marriage, in reality, is not lonely. On the contrary, we can lead a natural and comfortable life. There are many intimate friends around you. If we feel lonely, we always try to find out some way to ease them. Even if we are lonely, let us relish lone. That is also a perfect life attitude.