异步UDP通信框架，修正BeginReceiveFrom的10054错误

        /// <summary>
        /// http://support.microsoft.com/kb/263823/zh-cn
        /// BeginReceiveFrom will get 10054 exception, when sent to an unreachable endpoint
        /// </summary>
        private void DisableUdpReset()
        {
            uint IOC_IN = 0x80000000;
            uint IOC_VENDOR = 0x18000000;
            uint SIO_UDP_CONNRESET = IOC_IN | IOC_VENDOR | 12;
            _udpSocket.IOControl((int)SIO_UDP_CONNRESET, new byte[] { Convert.ToByte(false) }, null);
        }