年轻人都会犯什么错？（转载quora）

quora有一个问题：

年轻人最常犯的人生错误是什么？
1 太着急。寻找到对的人，对的职业，对的职位，当你年轻时，
你想要它们一瞬间都实现，然而你甚至没有了解自
己 。放下着急，从容享受你的岁月吧！

2 认为爱 是一种 感觉。不，爱是一种选择，一个承诺。是你做的事，而不是你感觉的事。相信行动上爱你的人，而不是仅仅在言语上的表现。

3 药和酒可以令人上瘾，这意味这他们能够使你做正常情况下，不会做的事。小心他们哦。

4 生活并且去工作，而不是为了生存而工作。
不要错过一件好事。

5 嘲笑。如果你不认为你能够做得不一样，那么就不要嘲笑，否则，你也是个犬儒主义者。

6 以为父母还是和你以为的那样的年轻。
老老实实承认这点吧！他们不会永远和我们在一起。

What are the most common life mistakes young people make?

1 Being in hurry. To find the right person, the right

career, the right job. When you are young, you want it

all to happen all at once, before you even have a chance

to figure yourself out. Take your time.

1. Thinking that love is a feeling. Love is a choice,

and a commitment. It’s something you do, not something

you feel. Trust those who act like they love you, not

just those who say that they do.
3 Drugs and alcohol can be addictive, which means that

they will make you do things you normally wouldn’t do.

Pay attention and be cautious with them.

4 Living to work, instead of working to live. Never pass

up a good thing.

5 Cynicism. If you think you can’t make a difference,

you probably won’t. There is no margin in being a cynic.

6 Thinking that your parents aren’t as human as you are.

And taking them for granted: they won’t be around

forever.