FormZFGLForPay frm = new FormZFGLForPay();
if (DialogResult.OK == frm.ShowDialog()) //以此来判断确定还是取消
{
}
弹出窗体,点击确定后,将 DialogResult = System.Windows.Forms.DialogResult.OK;
点击取消,将DialogResult = System.Windows.Forms.DialogResult.Cancel;