html:
    <script src="Scripts/jquery-1.4.1.min.js" type="text/javascript"></script>
    <script type="text/javascript">
        $(function () {
            $("input[type=button]").click(function () {
                $.ajax({
                    url: "aaa.xml",
                    datatype: "xml",
                    success: function (data) {
                        $(data).find("student").each(function () {
                            $("table").append("<tr><td>" + $(this).children("name").text() + "</td><td>" + $(this).children("age").text() + "</td><td>" + $(this).children("Gender").text() + "</td></tr>");
                        })
                    },
                    error: function () { alert("错误"); }
                })
            });
        })
    </script>
</head>
<body>
<div><input type="button" value="加载"/></div>
<table><tr><th>姓名</th><th>年龄</th><th>性别</th></tr></table>
</body>
</html>
xml:
<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" ?>
<table>
    <student>
        <name>zhangsan</name>
        <age>18</age>
        <Gender>男</Gender>
    </student>
    <student>
        <name>xiaofang</name>
        <age>16</age>
        <Gender>女</Gender>
    </student>
</table>