前台datagrid定义：
      <asp:datagrid id="Dgd_user" runat="server" DataKeyField="Emp_id" OnUpdateCommand="DataGrid_update"
       OnEditCommand="DataGrid_edit" OnDeleteCommand="DataGrid_delete" OnCancelCommand="DataGrid_cancel"
       OnPageIndexChanged="DataGrid_page" AutoGenerateColumns="False" PageSize="5" AllowPaging="True"
       Width="100%"
       CellPadding="4" GridLines="None" ForeColor="#333333">
       <SelectedItemStyle Font-Bold="True" ForeColor="#333333" BackColor="#D1DDF1"></SelectedItemStyle>
       <AlternatingItemStyle BackColor="White"></AlternatingItemStyle>
       <ItemStyle BackColor="#EFF3FB"></ItemStyle>
       <HeaderStyle Font-Bold="True" ForeColor="White" BackColor="#507CD1"></HeaderStyle>
       <FooterStyle ForeColor="White" BackColor="#507CD1" Font-Bold="True"></FooterStyle>
       <Columns>
        <asp:BoundColumn DataField="Emp_id" HeaderText="用户号"></asp:BoundColumn>
        <asp:BoundColumn DataField="Emp_name" HeaderText="登录名"></asp:BoundColumn>
        <asp:BoundColumn DataField="password" ReadOnly="True" HeaderText="密码" DataFormatString="******"></asp:BoundColumn>
        <asp:BoundColumn DataField="name" HeaderText="姓名"></asp:BoundColumn>
        <asp:BoundColumn DataField="Email" HeaderText="Email"></asp:BoundColumn>
        <asp:BoundColumn DataField="jb" HeaderText="用户类型"></asp:BoundColumn>
        <asp:BoundColumn DataField="tell" HeaderText="联系电话"></asp:BoundColumn>
        <asp:EditCommandColumn UpdateText="更新" CancelText="取消" EditText="编辑"></asp:EditCommandColumn>
        <asp:ButtonColumn Text="删除" CommandName="Delete"></asp:ButtonColumn>
       </Columns>
       <PagerStyle HorizontalAlign="Center" ForeColor="White" BackColor="#2461BF"></PagerStyle>
                            <EditItemStyle BackColor="#2461BF" />
      </asp:datagrid>
 
后台cs代码：
 public partial class Emp : System.Web.UI.Page
 {
     SqlConnection cn;
  protected void Page_Load(object sender, System.EventArgs e)
  {
   // 在此处放置用户代码以初始化页面
   if(Session["jb"].ToString()=="0")
   {
   }
   else
   {
    Response.Write ("您不是合法用户，请登入后再操作，<a href='default.aspx'>返回</a>");
    Page.Response.End();
   }
      
   string strconn=ConfigurationSettings.AppSettings["ConnectionString"];
   cn=new SqlConnection(strconn);
   if(!IsPostBack)  BindGrid();
  }
  #region Web 窗体设计器生成的代码
  override protected void OnInit(EventArgs e)
  {
   //
   // CODEGEN: 该调用是 ASP.NET Web 窗体设计器所必需的。
   //
   InitializeComponent();
   base.OnInit(e);
  }
  
  /// <summary>
  /// 设计器支持所需的方法 - 不要使用代码编辑器修改
  /// 此方法的内容。
  /// </summary>
  private void InitializeComponent()
  {   
  }
  #endregion
  protected void Btn_exit_Click(object sender, System.EventArgs e)
  {
   Page.Response.Redirect("default.aspx");
  }
  public void DataGrid_page(object sender,DataGridPageChangedEventArgs e)
  {
   Dgd_user.CurrentPageIndex=e.NewPageIndex;
   BindGrid();
  }
  public void BindGrid()
  {
   SqlDataAdapter da=new SqlDataAdapter("select * from Employee",cn);
   DataSet ds=new DataSet();
   da.Fill(ds);
   Dgd_user.DataSource=ds;
   Dgd_user.DataBind();
  }
  public void DataGrid_cancel(object sender,DataGridCommandEventArgs e)
  {
   
   Dgd_user.EditItemIndex=-1;
   BindGrid();
   
  }
  public void DataGrid_edit(object sender,DataGridCommandEventArgs e)
  {
   
   Dgd_user.EditItemIndex=(int)e.Item.ItemIndex;
  
   BindGrid();
   
  }
  public void DataGrid_update(object sender,DataGridCommandEventArgs e)
  {
   SqlCommand cm=new SqlCommand("UpdateEmp",cn);
   cm.CommandType=CommandType.StoredProcedure;
       
   cm.Parameters.Add(new SqlParameter("@Email",SqlDbType.VarChar,50));   
   cm.Parameters.Add(new SqlParameter("@tell",SqlDbType.VarChar,50));
   cm.Parameters.Add(new SqlParameter("@jb",SqlDbType.Int,4));
   cm.Parameters.Add(new SqlParameter("@Emp_id",SqlDbType.Int,4));
   string colvalue=((TextBox)e.Item.Cells[4].Controls[0]).Text;
   cm.Parameters["@Email"].Value=colvalue; 
  
   colvalue=((TextBox)e.Item.Cells[5].Controls[0]).Text;
   cm.Parameters["@jb"].Value=colvalue;
   colvalue=((TextBox)e.Item.Cells[6].Controls[0]).Text;
   cm.Parameters["@tell"].Value=colvalue; 
     
   cm.Parameters["@Emp_id"].Value=Dgd_user.DataKeys[(int)e.Item.ItemIndex];
   cm.Connection.Open();
   try
   {
    cm.ExecuteNonQuery();
    Lbl_note.Text="编辑成功";
    Dgd_user.EditItemIndex=-1;
   }
   catch(SqlException)
   {
    Lbl_note.Text="编辑失败";
    Lbl_note.Style["color"]="red";
   }
   cm.Connection.Close();  
   BindGrid();
   
  }
  
  public void DataGrid_delete(object sender,DataGridCommandEventArgs e)
  {
   
   SqlCommand cm=new SqlCommand("deleteEmp",cn);
   cm.CommandType=CommandType.StoredProcedure;
   cm.Parameters.Add(new SqlParameter("@Empid",SqlDbType.Int,4));
   cm.Parameters["@Empid"].Value=Dgd_user.DataKeys[(int)e.Item.ItemIndex];
   
   cm.Connection.Open();
   try
   {
    cm.ExecuteNonQuery();
    Lbl_note.Text="删除成功";
    
   }
   catch(SqlException)
   {
    Lbl_note.Text="删除失败";
    Lbl_note.Style["color"]="red";
   }
   cm.Connection.Close();   
   BindGrid();
  }
 }
 
以上程序经过测试通过，有需要源程序的朋友，请留言索取.