private void toolStripMenuItem_Click(object sender, EventArgs e)
{
ToolStripMenuItem tsi = (ToolStripMenuItem)sender;//转换类型
ContextMenuStrip strip = tsi.GetCurrentParent() as ContextMenuStrip;//检索作为当前ToolStripItem的容器
Control c = strip.SourceControl;//获取使ContextMenuStrip此被显示的控件
string a = c.Name;//关联控件的引用名称
c.BackColor = Color.Red;
}