获取进程主窗体句柄

WND g_hwin=NULL;
BOOL CALLBACK EnumWindowsProc(HWND hwnd,      // handle to parent window
							  LPARAM lParam   // application-defined value
							  )
{
								  DWORD PID;
								  BOOL  Result=TRUE;
								  GetWindowThreadProcessId(hwnd,&PID);
								  if (PID==GetCurrentProcessId() && GetWindowLong(hwnd,GWL_STYLE)&SW_SHOW /*&& GetParent(hwnd)==NULL*/)
								  { 
									  g_hwin = hwnd;//这个g_hwin在你的DLL里定义为一个全局的HWND,也是你想要的句柄
									  Result = FALSE;
								  }
								  return Result;
}

参考：http://www.vckbase.com/document/viewdoc/?id=404