委托的方式很不错:https://jingyan.baidu.com/article/851fbc37f4ba793e1f15ab83.html
也可以通过窗体传值
MenuConfigForm dialog = new MenuConfigForm();
dialog.TitleChanged = new MenuConfigForm.TitleChangedHandler(FormTitleChanged);
//dialog.Show();
if (dialog.ShowDialog() == System.Windows.Forms.DialogResult.OK)
{
InitButtonMenu3(list); //子窗体关闭触发刷新菜单
}