更重结果，轻过程

旅行的时候，我们也许重过程，轻结果；而解决问题的时候，我们更重结果，轻过程。那么，我们的生活和人生呢？你是先制定目标，然后努力奋斗早日实现呢？还是随遇而安，充分享受生活带来的酸甜苦辣呢？来分享你的人生态度吧。
When we are having a journey, we may focus on the process and disregard the result; when we solve a problem, we may mind more about the result rather than the process. Then, what about our life? Will you first set up a goal, and then make every effort to make it come true? Or will you feel at ease at all circumstances and enjoy the joys and sorrows of life? Tell us your attitude towards life.

好巧，此文发表的当天，我正好想过这个问题。原来我觉的，过程才是最重要的。但是，现在，我的认识转变了。没有结果，过程只会被掩没。你可能会说，你享受了过程的美好。但是，当你落入这个世界的时候，注定不只是你一个人。你身边有父母，有亲人，有朋友，还有许许多多和你有关系的人。享受过程，却是你一个人的事儿。你身边的人们，和你共同享受过程的时候少之又少。所以，过程，我理解为，自己用来安慰自己的一个理由。当然了，每件事情都有一个过程。也许，你做A事失败了，但是，完成A事的过程中，你积累了一些经验，成功的做成了B事。这样看来，过程也蛮重要的，但是，如果你B事没完成，没有那个结果，那么做A事享受的过程有什么作用，根本无从谈起，过程就是为了衬托结果的。所以，很多“过程”的美好是建立在“结果”的美好之上的。而很多人谈起这个话题时，喜欢用旅行来举例子。其实，旅行更是一个追求结果的例子。一件事的发生总有原因，旅行是为了什么？放松，开心，开拓眼界。这当然算是结果了。过程还不是为了结果？为了玩的最最开心？如果过程不美好，你没有玩好，实际上这件事情就算是失败了。是一件没有“结果”的事情。这个过程当然是没有意义的。 从小到大，你已经经历了很多事情。有多少人会说，这个月没挣到钱，但是我享受了比钱更重要的过程；我没考上大学，但得到了比考上大学还重要的东西；我没能和女友天长地久，但是，这个过程比天长地久更重要。过程是很重要，但是，如果在过程和结果中选一个的话，我觉的，选择结果的会多一些吧。不信的话，你可以做个调查~ 人的一生最最重要的是什么？人生价值！你的价值何以体现---梦想，成功的梦想！而不是只有过程美好，而结果却是失败的梦想！ Good Coincidentally, this article published that day, I just thought about this issue. I think that the process is the most important. But now, my awareness changed. No results, the process will only be eclipsed. You might say, you better enjoy the process. However, when you fall into the hands of the world when you are destined not just one person. You have parents around, there are relatives, friends, there are so many and you have a relationship. Enjoy the process, it is one thing you. People around you, and your time together to enjoy the process very little. Therefore, the process, I understood that he used to own a reason for consolation. Of course, Everything has a process. Perhaps, you do A thing failed, however, the completion of A in the course of things, you have accumulated some experience, the success of a cause of B thing. It would appear that the process is also very important, but, if you do not complete the B, there is no result, then do A thing to enjoy what the role of the process is out of the question, the process is to set off the results. Therefore, a lot of "process" is based on the better "results" on the good. Many people talk about this topic, like to travel to the examples given. In fact, travel is an example of the pursuit of results. The occurrence of one thing there are always reasons, travel is about? Relaxed, happy, open up their horizons. This, of course, is the result of the. Is not the result of the process in order? In order to play the most happy? If the process is not good, you do not have to play good, in fact, even if it failed. Is not "results" thing. Of course, this process is meaningless. From small to large, you have gone through a lot of things. How many people would say, not to earn some money this month, but I enjoy the money is more important than the process; I can not university, but the university has been important than things; and his girlfriend, I did not ever, However, this process is more important than ever. Process is very important, but, if selected in the process and outcome of a case, I feel, and to choose the outcome of it a little more. If not, you can make a survey ~ One's life what is most important? Value of life! Why the manifestation of the value of your --- dream, the dream of success! Only the process rather than better, and the result was the failure of the dream! 最后由 youleeka 于 2009-07-06 21:25:13编辑