WM_MOUSEHOVER

case WM_MOUSEMOVE:
{
 m_bTrackMouse=TRUE;
if (m_bTrackMouse)    //若允许追踪，则。
 {
  TRACKMOUSEEVENT csTME;
 csTME.cbSize = sizeof(csTME);
 csTME.dwFlags = TME_LEAVE|TME_HOVER;
   csTME.hwndTrack = m_hWnd;         //指定要追踪的窗口
 csTME.dwHoverTime = 30;           //鼠标在按钮上停留超过xxms，才认为状态为HOVER   
  ::_TrackMouseEvent(&csTME);       //开启Windows的WM_MOUSELEAVE，WM_MOUSEHOVER事件支持
   m_bTrackMouse=FALSE;              //若已经追踪，则停止追踪
 }
}
break;
case WM_MOUSELEAVE:
{
  m_bTrackMouse=TRUE;
 }
 break;
case WM_MOUSEHOVER:         //由控件内部自己判断
 {
  OnHoverRightMenu(wParam,lParam);
}
 break;