NIO非阻塞案例详细讲解，相当于聊天室了

    public void client() throws IOException {
        //建立套接字通道
        SocketChannel socketChannel = SocketChannel.open(new InetSocketAddress("127.0.0.1", 7878));
        //切换到非阻塞模式
        socketChannel.configureBlocking(false);
        ByteBuffer buffer = ByteBuffer.allocate(1024);
        //从控制台输入
        Scanner scanner = new Scanner(System.in);
        while (scanner.hasNext()) {
            String str = scanner.next();
            //JDK8的时间类
            LocalDateTime time = LocalDateTime.now();
            DateTimeFormatter df = DateTimeFormatter.ofPattern("yyyy-MM-dd HH:mm:ss");
            String localTime = df.format(time);
            buffer.put((localTime+"\n"+str).getBytes());
            //pos，limit复位,切换到读取数据模式
            buffer.flip();
            //从缓冲区把数据写到管道
            socketChannel.write(buffer);
            buffer.clear();
        }
        scanner.close();
        socketChannel.close();
    }

    public void server() throws IOException {
        //建立套接字通道
        ServerSocketChannel serverSocketChannel = ServerSocketChannel.open();
        //切换到非阻塞模式
        serverSocketChannel.configureBlocking(false);
        //绑定对应服务端口，监听新的客户端连接
        serverSocketChannel.bind(new InetSocketAddress(7878));
        //获取选择器
        Selector selector = Selector.open();
        //向选择器中注册此通道和接受事件并监听
        serverSocketChannel.register(selector, SelectionKey.OP_ACCEPT);
        //循环获取准备就绪的事件
        while (selector.select() > 0) {
            //获取当前选择器中所有注册的选择键，一个注册建对应一个某个感兴趣事件的通道
            Set<SelectionKey> selectionKeys = selector.selectedKeys();
            Iterator<SelectionKey> iterator = selectionKeys.iterator();
            while (iterator.hasNext()) {
                //获取准备就绪的事件
                SelectionKey sk = iterator.next();
                //判断是否已准备好接受新的套接字连接
                if (sk.isAcceptable()) {
                    //获取接受就绪的客户端连接
                    SocketChannel socketChannel = serverSocketChannel.accept();
                    //切换非阻塞通道
                    socketChannel.configureBlocking(false);
                    socketChannel.register(selector, SelectionKey.OP_READ);
                } else if (sk.isReadable()) {
                    //通过
                    SocketChannel socketChannel = (SocketChannel) sk.channel();
                    //切换非阻塞通道
                    serverSocketChannel.configureBlocking(false);

                    ByteBuffer buffer = ByteBuffer.allocate(1024);
                    int len = 0;
                    //从通道读取数据到缓冲区
                    while ((len = socketChannel.read(buffer)) > 0) {
                        buffer.flip();
                        System.out.println(new String(buffer.array(), 0, len));
                        buffer.clear();
                    }
                }
            }
            //取消选择键，不然下次还会获取到
            iterator.remove();
        }
    }

主要是服务端的代码

1.服务端的套接字管道要注册"接受监听事件"

2.Selector监听多个通道上感兴趣的事件，然后使用select()方法循环监听所有注册过的选择键是否有准备就绪的通道

3.遍历这些准备就绪的通道，看是哪种感兴趣事件

4.最后记得移除这些通道