2012-8-25可樂美文分享《The story…

The story of life

       Sometimes people come into your life and you come to realize that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be (possibly your roommate, neighbor, co-worker, long-lost friend, lover, or even a complete stranger ), but when you lock eyes with them, you know in an instant that they will affect your life in some profound way.

And sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful, and unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential , strength, willpower or heart. Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good luck. Illness, injury, love, brilliant achievements,and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. It would be safe and comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless.

      The people you meet who affect your life , and the success and downfalls you experience, help to create who you are and who you become . Even the bad experiences can be learned from . In fact , they are probably the most poignant and important ones . If someone hurts you , betrays you , or breaks your heart , forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious when you open your heart . If someone loves you , love them back unconditionally , not only because they love you , but because in a way, they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things . Make every day count . Apreciate every moment and take from those moments everything that you possibly can , for you may never be able to experience it again . Talk to people that you have never talked to before , and actually listen . Let yourself fall in love , break free , and set your sights high . Hold your head up because you have every right to . Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself , for if you don't believe in yourself , it will be hard for others to believe in you.

       You can make of our life anything your wish . Create your own life and then go out and live it with absolutely no regrets . Most importantly (!!!), if you LOVE someone tell him or her , for you never know what tomorrow may have in store.

 

有时候,某些人走进了你的生活,而你便会意识到他们就应当出现,出现是为了某种目的,为了给你一个教训,或者为了帮助你弄清你是谁或者你想成为谁,你无从知道这些人会是谁(也许是你的同屋、邻居、同事、久违的朋友、爱人,甚至是一个完全陌生的人),但是当你定睛凝视他们的时候,顷刻间你便知道他们会以某种深刻的方式影响你的生活。

 

并且,有时候发生在你身上的事情乍看起来可怕、痛苦,或者不公平,但是细想一下你就会发现如果不是克服这些障碍,你永远也不会意识到自己的潜力、力量、毅力或者内心。一切皆事出有因。没有任何事情处于偶然或者侥幸。疾病、伤害、爱情、辉煌的成就和十足的蠢行都会出现在你的生活之中来检验你灵魂的深度。没有这些点点滴滴的考验,不管它是什么,生活将会像一条平坦笔直的道路,一味伸展而没有目的地。虽然说安全舒适,但是单调乏味,毫无意义。

 

你所遇到影响你生活的人,你经历的成功与挫败,都有助于塑造你,成就你。就连那些不幸的经历,你也能从中汲取教训,实际上,它们可能是你最深切最重要的人生阅历。如果偶人伤害了你,背叛了你,或者让你心碎不已,原谅他们,因为是他们让你认识到什么是信任,认识到当你敞开心扉时仍需要保持一份警惕的重要性。如果有人爱你,那么无条件得去爱他们吧,不仅仅是因为他们爱你,还因为在某种意义上,他们在教导你如何去爱,教导你如何敞开心胸,教导你睁大眼睛去感受世间万物。让每一天都充满意义吧。珍惜每一刻并尽己所能得从中汲取所需,因为你可能永远无法再度体会这种经历。去和你以前从未交谈过的人聊聊,并且仔细聆听。让自己坠入爱河,让自己跳出情网,让自己看得更高更远。昂起头,因为你有充分的权利去正视一切。告诉自己并且相信自己是个了不起的人,因为如果你不自信,别人便更难以相信你。

 

你可以按照自己的意愿生活。去创造自己的生活,不要后悔。最最重要的,如果爱某人,告诉他或她,因为你无从知道明天会发生什么。