session.setAttribute("option", sele);
<%
String gg=(String)session.getAttribute("option")==null?"":(String)session.getAttribute("option");
int g=0;
if(gg.equals("")){
g=0;
}else{
g=Integer.parseInt(gg);
}
%>
<select name="sele">
<option value="0" >请选择</option>
<option value="1" <%if(g==1){ %>selected="selected"<%}%>>第一行</option>
<option value="2" <%if(g==2){ %>selected="selected"<%}%>>第二行</option>
<option value="3" <%if(g==3){ %>selected="selected"<%}%>>第三行</option>
<option value="4" <%if(g==4){ %>selected="selected"<%}%>>第四行</option>
<option value="5" <%if(g==5){ %>selected="selected"<%}%>>第五行</option>
</select>