寻找真爱

1  physical attraction (彼此身体上吸引)

2  shared goals ,intersts, and belief system (了解彼此的理想、兴趣和信仰)

3  mutual respect ,acceptance ,and the desire to please each other (相互尊重、接受，双方有取悦对方的愿望)

4  mutual honesty and trust(相互真诚和信任)

5  realistic expectation for each other and the relationship(对对方有比较现实的期望)

6  a balance of dependence and independence (在依靠和独立间平衡)

7  a cooperative approach to ploblems (共同解决难题)

8  a shared life (生活在一起)