select * from (
SELECT [Spid] = session_id ,
ecid ,
[Database] = DB_NAME(sp.dbid) ,
[User] = nt_username ,
[Status] = er.status ,
[Wait] = wait_type ,
[Individual Query] = SUBSTRING(qt.text,
er.statement_start_offset / 2,
( CASE WHEN er.statement_end_offset = -1
THEN LEN(CONVERT(NVARCHAR(MAX), qt.text))
* 2
ELSE er.statement_end_offset
END - er.statement_start_offset )
/ 2) ,
[Parent Query] = qt.text ,
Program = program_name ,
hostname ,
nt_domain ,
start_time
FROM sys.dm_exec_requests er
INNER JOIN sys.sysprocesses sp ON er.session_id = sp.spid
CROSS APPLY sys.dm_exec_sql_text(er.sql_handle) AS qt
WHERE session_id > 50 -- Ignore system spids.
AND session_id NOT IN ( @@SPID ) -- Ignore this current statement.
) T00
where [Individual Query] like '%update %'
SELECT
r.session_id,
r.status,
r.start_time,
r.command,
r.cpu_time,
r.total_elapsed_time,
r.reads,
r.writes,
r.logical_reads,
st.text AS SQLText,
db_name(r.database_id) AS DatabaseName
FROM
sys.dm_exec_requests r
CROSS APPLY
sys.dm_exec_sql_text(r.sql_handle) AS st
WHERE
r.status = 'running' OR r.status = 'suspended'
ORDER BY
r.total_elapsed_time DESC;