private void gridView1_InitNewRow(object sender, InitNewRowEventArgs e)
{
GridView view = sender as GridView;
view.SetRowCellValue(e.RowHandle, view.Columns["具体列名"], 默认值);
//如下例子:
view.SetRowCellValue(e.RowHandle, view.Columns["sex"], "男");}
//具体可以参考以下官方api