HWND m_hWndCB;
HINSTANCE g_hInst = ::AfxGetInstanceHandle();
m_hWndCB = ::CommandBar_Create(g_hInst, m_hWnd, 1);
HMENU hCBMenu = NULL,hMenu = NULL;
hCBMenu = ::CommandBar_GetMenu(m_hWndCB, 0);
hMenu = ::GetSubMenu(hCBMenu, 0);
::EnableMenuItem(hMenu,IDC_BTDel,MF_ENABLED | MF_GRAYED);