el-table动态合并表格，合并的表格行数是个变量--span-method

根据自己设定的规则，合并动态行数

线上例子（可动态点击）：https://codepen.io/luoting249/pen/QWKKZPp
下面是代码片段（可把代码粘贴到element在线运行上，可看到效果）：

<script src="//unpkg.com/vue/dist/vue.js"></script>
<script src="//unpkg.com/element-ui@2.14.1/lib/index.js"></script>
<div id="app">
<template>
  <div>
    <el-table
      :data="tableData"
      :span-method="objectSpanMethod"
      border
      style="width: 100%; margin-top: 20px">
      <el-table-column
        prop="amount2"
        align="center"
        label="数值 2（元）">
      </el-table-column>
      <el-table-column
        prop="amount3"
        align="center"
        label="数值 3（元）">
      </el-table-column>
      <el-table-column
        prop="name"
        align="center"
        label="姓名">
      </el-table-column>
      <el-table-column
        align="center"
        label="操作">
        <template slot-scope="scope">
          <a style="color:red" @click="addRule(scope.$index)">新增</a>
          <template v-if="scope.$index>0">
            <a style="color:red" @click="deleteRule(scope.$index)">删除</a>
          </template>
        </template>
      </el-table-column>
    </el-table>
    <div class="add-special">
      <el-button type="primary" size="small" @click.native="addLabelRow">复制第一大行</el-button>
    </div>
  </div>
</template>
</div>

var Main = {
  data() {
    return {
      tableData: [
        {
          name: "王小虎",
          amount2: "3.2",
          amount3: 10
        },
        {
          name: "王小虎",
          amount2: "4.43",
          amount3: 12
        },
        {
          name: "王小虎",
          amount2: "1.9",
          amount3: 9
        },
        {
          name: "王小虎",
          amount2: "2.2",
          amount3: 17
        },
        {
          name: "王小虎",
          amount2: "4.1",
          amount3: 15
        }
      ],
      clueLabelMergeRule: [2, 3] // 合并规则
    };
  },
  computed: {
    arr() {
      // 合并规则的累加数组
      let a = [];
      this.clueLabelMergeRule.reduce((prev, curr) => {
        a.push(prev + curr);
        return prev + curr;
      }, 0);
      return a;
    }
  },
  created() {
    this.pushMergeNum();
  },
  methods: {
    pushMergeNum() {
      this.clueLabelMergeRule.forEach((item, index) => {
        this.tableData.forEach((el, i) => {
          if (item + i === this.arr[index]) {
            this.$set(el, "mergeNum", item);
          }
        });
      });
    },
    addRule (index, table) {
      let flag = true
      this.arr.forEach((item, i) => {
        if (!flag) { // 一旦加一后就不用继续循环了
          return
        }
        // 判断点击的下标是否小于总和，如果小于，则merge的规则里加1
        if (index < item) {
          flag = false
          this.clueLabelMergeRule.splice(i, 1, ++this.clueLabelMergeRule[i])
        }
      })
      // 往表格里添加一行数据
      this.tableData.splice(index + 1, 0, {label: [], value: '14'})
      // 因为规则变了，所以要把原先push进去的mergeNum值给清空初始化
      this.tableData.map(item => delete item.mergeNum)
      // 重新push mergeNum值
      this.pushMergeNum()
    },
     deleteRule (index, table) {
      let flag = true
      this.arr.forEach((item, i) => {
        if (!flag) { // 一旦减一后就不用继续循环了
          return
        }
        // 判断点击的下标是否小于总和，如果小于，则merge的规则里减1
        if (index < item) {
          flag = false
          this.clueLabelMergeRule.splice(i, 1, --this.clueLabelMergeRule[i])
        }
      })
      // 如果规则里的数有零的话就删除那一项
      this.$set(this, 'clueLabelMergeRule', this.clueLabelMergeRule.filter(item => item > 0))
      // 删除这行table数据
      this.tableData.splice(index, 1)
      // 因为规则变了，所以要把原先push进去的mergeNum值给清空初始化
      this.tableData.map(item => delete item.mergeNum)
      // 重新push mergeNum值
      this.pushMergeNum()
    },
    // 复制第一大行
    addLabelRow () {
      // 把第一个格子里的数据复制一份push进去
      let arr = JSON.parse(JSON.stringify(this.tableData.slice(0, this.clueLabelMergeRule[0])))
      arr.forEach(item => {
        item.users = []
      })
      this.tableData.push(...arr)
      // 把合并规则的第一个行数push合并规则里
      this.clueLabelMergeRule.push(this.clueLabelMergeRule[0])
    },
    objectSpanMethod({ row, column, rowIndex, columnIndex }) {
      if (columnIndex === 2) {
        console.log(row, column, rowIndex, columnIndex);
        if (row.mergeNum) {
          // 如果存在mergeNum，就开始进行合并
          return {
            rowspan: row.mergeNum,
            colspan: 1
          };
        } else {
          return {
            rowspan: 0,
            colspan: 0
          };
        }
      }
    }
  }
};
var Ctor = Vue.extend(Main);
new Ctor().$mount("#app");