wpf 如何在父容器上 关闭 usercontrol

背景;
自定义控件 usercontrol， 在 WrapPanel 显示。方式：

  tWrapPanel.Children.Add(y);

问题：
父容器中加载了很多 usercontrol，当usercontrol 使用完了，点击usercontrol上的关闭按钮，关闭 usercontrol 控件，但是不关闭 父容器。

思路：
1、在usercontrol 中获得当前自定义控件的父容器；
2、删除父容器中 当前的usercontrol

   ControlsEquiryHelp c = new ControlsEquiryHelp();
   WrapPanel w = c.GetParentObject<WrapPanel>(this.Hvc_Y8000SerialControl, "");
   w.Children.Remove(this.usercontrol的Name);

ControlsEquiryHelp类
（参考：: https://www.cnblogs.com/Seek-logic/p/3234008.html）

       /// <summary>
        /// 获取父控件
        /// 调用方法：Grid layoutGrid = VTHelper.GetParentObject<Grid>(this.spDemoPanel, "LayoutRoot");
        /// </summary>
        /// <typeparam name="T"></typeparam>
        /// <param name="obj"></param>
        /// <param name="name"></param>
        /// <returns></returns>
        public T GetParentObject<T>(DependencyObject obj, string name) where T : FrameworkElement
        {
            DependencyObject parent = VisualTreeHelper.GetParent(obj);
            while (parent != null)
            {
                if (parent is T && (((T)parent).Name == name || string.IsNullOrEmpty(name)))
                {
                    return (T)parent;
                }
                parent = VisualTreeHelper.GetParent(parent);
            }
            return null;
        }

///
/// 如果关闭 usercontrol 时，把对应的父容器也关闭，则使用下面方法：
///参考：https://blog.csdn.net/m0_37591671/article/details/79519298
///

  [DllImport("user32.dll", CharSet = CharSet.Auto, SetLastError = false)]
        static extern IntPtr SendMessage(IntPtr hWnd, UInt32 Msg, IntPtr wParam, IntPtr lParam);

        [DllImport("user32.dll", CharSet = CharSet.Auto, SetLastError = false)]
        private static extern IntPtr GetParent(IntPtr hWnd);

        //I'd double check this constant, just in case
        static uint WM_CLOSE = 0x10;

        private void CloseContainingWindow(Visual visual)
        {
            // Find the containing HWND for the Visual in question
            HwndSource wpfHandle = PresentationSource.FromVisual(this) as HwndSource;
            if (wpfHandle == null)
            {
                throw new Exception("Could not find Window handle");
            }

            // Trace up the window chain, to find the ultimate parent
            IntPtr hWindow = wpfHandle.Handle;
            while (true)
            {
                IntPtr parentHWindow = GetParent(hWindow);
                if (parentHWindow == (IntPtr)0) break;
                hWindow = parentHWindow;
            }

            // Now send the containing window a close message
            SendMessage(hWindow, WM_CLOSE, IntPtr.Zero, IntPtr.Zero);
        }

调用：

CloseContainingWindow(usercontrol);