如何删除Xml的节点

 //删除没有子节点的节点

private String validXML(String strNBCNewAlertNotification) throws Exception{
		    DocumentBuilderFactory dbFactory = DocumentBuilderFactory.newInstance();
		     dbFactory.setNamespaceAware(true);
			dbFactory.setValidating(true);
		    DocumentBuilder dbBuilder = dbFactory.newDocumentBuilder();
		    InputSource is = new InputSource(new StringReader(strNBCNewAlertNotification));
		    Document doc = dbBuilder.parse(is);
		    NodeList domainValueList=doc.getElementsByTagNameNS("*", "actionObject");
		    if(null ==domainValueList || domainValueList.getLength() == 0){
		    	 NodeList domainValueList2=doc.getElementsByTagNameNS("*", "actionObjectList");
		    	 Node node = domainValueList2.item(0);

//这个是重点，自己不能删除自己，找到 父node.getParentNode() 再删除 子.removeChild(