update A set a_field= (select realname from B where A.extension=B.extension and B.extension <> '')
update A a inner join B b on a.extension=b.extension and a.extension <> '' set a.extenrealname =b.realname
update A set a_field= (select realname from B where A.extension=B.extension and B.extension <> '')
update A a inner join B b on a.extension=b.extension and a.extension <> '' set a.extenrealname =b.realname