c#中如何获得datagrid标题栏中的checkbox空间

 private void GetMyContactUserList()
  {  
   try
   {
        
    //创建一个SqlConnection对象
    string strCon = "Initial Catalog='HMMISDATA';Server='192.168.1.251';User ID='XQF222';Password='hao123';Persist Security Info=True";
    SqlConnection myConn = new SqlConnection ( strCon ) ;    
    myConn.Open ( ) ;    
    //定义数据查询命令
    SqlCommand selectCommand=myConn.CreateCommand();
    selectCommand.CommandType=CommandType.Text;    
    selectCommand.CommandText="SELECT ID,UserQQ,RealName,isContacted,ContactQQStatus,ContactWorkStatus,ContactResult,QQFileContent,ContactUserIP,ContactTime,ContactUserName FROM ContactUserList where isContacted=1 and ContactUserName='"+GlobalUserClass.GlobalUserName+"' Order by ContactTime Desc" ;
    //读取全部数据到DATASET对象中          
    SqlDataAdapter myAdapter = new SqlDataAdapter (selectCommand) ; 
    myDataSet=new DataSet();
    myAdapter.Fill(myDataSet);
    DataTable myDataTable=new DataTable();
    myDataTable=myDataSet.Tables[0];
    this.dataGrid1.SetDataBinding(myDataTable,"");
    
    
    DataGridTableStyle myDataGridStyle = new DataGridTableStyle();
    myDataGridStyle.MappingName =myDataTable.TableName;
    
    //设置dataGrid样式
    myDataGridStyle.RowHeadersVisible = false;
    myDataGridStyle.HeaderBackColor = Color.LightSteelBlue;
    myDataGridStyle.AllowSorting = false;
    myDataGridStyle.HeaderBackColor = Color.FromArgb(8,36,107);
    myDataGridStyle.RowHeadersVisible = false;
    myDataGridStyle.HeaderForeColor = Color.White;
    myDataGridStyle.HeaderFont = new System.Drawing.Font("Microsoft Sans Serif", 9F,System.Drawing.FontStyle.Bold,  System.Drawing.GraphicsUnit.Point, ((System.Byte)(0)));
    myDataGridStyle.GridLineColor = Color.DarkGray;
    myDataGridStyle.PreferredRowHeight = 22;
    myDataGridStyle.BackColor=Color.White;
    dataGrid1.TableStyles.Add(myDataGridStyle);
    
    //设置dataGrid列的宽度
    GridColumnStylesCollection myDataGridColStyle = dataGrid1.TableStyles[0].GridColumnStyles; 
    myDataGridColStyle["ID"].Width = 40;    
    myDataGridColStyle["UserQQ"].Width = 80;
    myDataGridColStyle["RealName"].Width = 80;
    myDataGridColStyle["isContacted"].Width = 80;
    myDataGridColStyle["ContactWorkStatus"].Width = 80;
    myDataGridColStyle["ContactQQStatus"].Width = 80;
    myDataGridColStyle["ContactResult"].Width = 80;
    myDataGridColStyle["QQFileContent"].Width = 80;
    myDataGridColStyle["ContactUserIP"].Width = 80;    
    myDataGridColStyle["ContactTime"].Width = 80;
    myDataGridColStyle["ContactUserName"].Width = 100;
    //设置dataGrid列的标题
    myDataGridColStyle["ID"].HeaderText ="序号";   
    myDataGridColStyle["UserQQ"].HeaderText ="QQ号码";
    myDataGridColStyle["RealName"].HeaderText = "真实姓名";
    myDataGridColStyle["isContacted"].HeaderText ="资料状态";
    myDataGridColStyle["ContactWorkStatus"].HeaderText ="联系状态";
    myDataGridColStyle["ContactQQStatus"].HeaderText ="QQ状态";
    myDataGridColStyle["ContactResult"].HeaderText ="工作结果";
    myDataGridColStyle["QQFileContent"].HeaderText ="联系内容";
    myDataGridColStyle["ContactUserIP"].HeaderText = "提交IP";
    myDataGridColStyle["ContactTime"].HeaderText ="提交时间";
    myDataGridColStyle["ContactUserName"].HeaderText = "提交用户"; 
    //设置dataGrid列的显示内容 :比如设置BOOL字段显示成是或否
    
    
    myConn.Close ( ) ;
    
   }
   catch ( Exception ex0 )
   {
    //statusBar1.Text="连接远程SQL数据库失败";
    MessageBox.Show ( "连接数据库时候发生错误：" + ex0.ToString ( ) , "错误！" ) ;
   }
   
  }