7 Habits of Highly Effective People

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7个习惯
1 be proactive
2 Begin with the end in mind
3 put first things first
4 think win-win
5 seek first to understand, then to be understood
6 Synergize (1+1>2)
7 Sharpen the saw

EBA emotion bank 情感账户(build trust)

1, be proactive

刺激 -> 回应 6秒钟原则(自由的选择) 
影响圈与关注圈

2, begin with the end in mind

时刻明白自己的目标,并朝之努力,以达成目标

3, Put first things first

不要去做消防员,防火比救火更重要.
重要性(对自己本身是否有value) 与 紧急型.
重要紧急 > 重要不紧急 > 紧急不重要(try to stop) > 不重要不紧急(stop)

4, 知彼解彼

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