从NetCore报错到MySql安全

之前项目在测试服务器上的一些接口时不时会报出下面的错误：（采用Abp框架）

"SocketException: 你的主机中的软件中止了一个已建立的连接。
STACK TRACE:    at MySqlConnector.Protocol.Serialization.SocketByteHandler.WriteBytesAsync(ArraySegment`1 data, IOBehavior ioBehavior) in C:\projects\mysqlconnector\src\MySqlConnector\Protocol\Serialization\SocketByteHandler.cs:line 90
--- End of stack trace from previous location where exception was thrown ---
   at System.Runtime.ExceptionServices.ExceptionDispatchInfo.Throw()
   at System.Runtime.CompilerServices.TaskAwaiter.HandleNonSuccessAndDebuggerNotification(Task task)
   at MySqlConnector.Utilities.ValueTaskExtensions.<ContinueWith>d__0`2.MoveNext() in C:\projects\mysqlconnector\src\MySqlConnector\Utilities\ValueTaskExtensions.cs:line 8
--- End of stack trace from previous location where exception was thrown ---
   at System.Runtime.ExceptionServices.ExceptionDispatchInfo.Throw()
   at System.Runtime.CompilerServices.TaskAwaiter.HandleNonSuccessAndDebuggerNotification(Task task)
   at MySqlConnector.Core.ServerSession.TryAsyncContinuation(Task`1 task) in C:\projects\mysqlconnector\src\MySqlConnector\Core\ServerSession.cs:line 1225
   at System.Threading.Tasks.ContinuationResultTaskFromResultTask`2.InnerInvoke()
   at System.Threadi