试试用 lsof 找出 socket file
$ ps -A | grep mysql
2024 s002 S 0:49.38 /usr/local/Cellar/mysql/5.5.10/bin/mysqld
$ lsof -p 2024
# output omitted
# Bingo!
mysqld 2024 howard 12u unix 0x08a70870 0t0 /tmp/mysql.sock
mysqld 2024 howard 13u REG 14,2 2048 1013034 /usr/local/var/mysql/mysql/host.MYI
mysqld 2024 howard 14u REG 14,2 0 1013035 /usr/local/var/mysql/mysql/host.MYD
mysqld 2024 howard 15u REG 14,2 2048 1013037 /usr/local/var/mysql/mysql/user.MYI
mysqld 2024 howard 16u REG 14,2 736 1013038 /usr/local/var/mysql/mysql/user.MYD
mysqld 2024 howard 17u REG 14,2 5120 1013030 /usr/local/var/mysql/mysql/db.MYI
mysqld 2024 howard 18u REG 14,2 3080 1013032 /usr/local/var/mysql/mysql/db.MYD