如何解决旧版本的node和npm卸载不干净导致的用homebrew安装新版本过程中出现的问题

最近发现了homebrew的诸般便利，并且发现自己手动更新node和npm总是不是网络有问题就是什么有问题，动心把之前安装的node和npm手动都删掉了，高高兴兴地去用homebrew安装，结果发现高兴早了还有好多文件没删干净，这些在安装后报错并给提示，我就顺着它的提示一步步解决错误的地方，最后终于安装成功了，具体怎么解决这些错误就在这里记录一下。

一开始的错误是这样的：

Error: The `brew link` step did not complete successfully
The formula built, but is not symlinked into /usr/local
Could not symlink share/doc/node/gdbinit
Target /usr/local/share/doc/node/gdbinit
already exists. You may want to remove it:
  rm '/usr/local/share/doc/node/gdbinit'

To force the link and overwrite all conflicting files:
  brew link --overwrite node

To list all files that would be deleted:
  brew link --overwrite --dry-run node

Possible conflicting files are:
/usr/local/share/doc/node/gdbinit
/usr/local/share/doc/node/lldb_commands.py
/usr/local/share/man/man1/node.1
/usr/local/share/sys