http://www.cnblogs.com/wangtao_20/archive/2011/03/07/1973621.html
http://www.linuxquestions.org/questions/linux-software-2/php5-configure-error-cannot-find-mysql-header-files-230651/
http://2233426.blog.51cto.com/2223426/1264128
http://dba.stackexchange.com/questions/54608/innodb-error-table-mysql-innodb-table-stats-not-found-after-upgrade-to-mys
关键:如果是自己编译安装的mysql,那么使用--with-mysql=/usr/local/mysql (或者使用/usr);如果是源安装的,那么只要加上--with-mysql即可,让配置自行查找)