远程开启mysql，一旦断开远程连接，mysql服务就停止！

问题：

mysql 的版本是5.7 centOS的版本是7.7
采用securityCRT远程连接服务器，在保持连接的状态下，mysql服务正常使用，一旦断开远程连接就出现mysql停服，期间尝试过后台启动，启动的命令为：

  /usr/local/mysql/bin/mysqld_safe --defaults-file=/etc/my.cnf &

但是并没有解决问题。
其中我的my.cnf如下：

 [client]
port=3306
socket=/usr/local/mysql/data/mysql.sock
default-character-set=utf8mb4

[mysqld]
port=3306
socket=/usr/local/mysql/data/mysql.sock

skip-slave-start

skip-external-locking
key_buffer_size=256M
sort_buffer_size=2M
read_buffer_size=2M
read_rnd_buffer_size=4M
query_cache_size=32M
max_allowed_packet=16M
myisam_sort_buffer_size=128M
tmp_table_size=32M

table_open_cache=512
thread_cache_size=8
wait_timeout=86400
interactive_timeout=86400
max_connections=600

# Try number of CPU’s*2 for thread_concurrency
#thread_concurrency=32

#isolation level and default engine
default-storage-engine=INNODB
transaction-isolation=READ-COMMITTED

server-id=1739
basedir=/usr/local/mysql
datadir=/usr/local/mysql/data
pid-file=/usr/local/mysql/data/hostname.pid

#open performance schema
log-warnings
sysdate-is-now

binlog_format=ROW
log_bin_trust_function_creators=1
log-error=/usr/local/mysql/data/hostname.err
log-bin=/usr/local/mysql/arch/mysql-bin
expire_logs_days=7

innodb_write_io_threads=16

relay-log=/usr/local/mysql/relay_log/relay-log
relay-log-index=/usr/local/mysql/relay_log/relay-log.index
relay_log_info_file=/usr/local/mysql/relay_log/relay-log.info

log_slave_updates=1
gtid_mode=OFF
enforce_gtid_consistency=OFF

# slave
slave-parallel-type=LOGICAL_CLOCK
slave-parallel-workers=4
master_info_repository=TABLE
relay_log_info_repository=TABLE
relay_log_recovery=ON

#other logs
#general_log=1
#general_log_file=/usr/local/mysql/data/general_log.err
#slow_query_log=1
#slow_query_log_file=/usr/local/mysql/data/slow_log.err

#for replication slave
sync_binlog=500

#for innodb options
innodb_data_home_dir=/usr/local/mysql/data/
innodb_data_file_path=ibdata1:1G;ibdata2:1G:autoextend

innodb_log_group_home_dir=/usr/local/mysql/arch
innodb_log_files_in_group=4
innodb_log_file_size=1G
innodb_log_buffer_size=200M

#根据生产需要，调整pool size
innodb_buffer_pool_size=2G
#innodb_additional_mem_pool_size=