WM_COPYDATA

     // Send the string to the main dialog box
 COPYDATASTRUCT cds = { 0, lstrlenA(buf) + 1, buf };
 HWND hWndtarget=FindWindow(NULL,"Last MessageBox Info");
 if(hWndtarget)
  MessageBox(NULL,"未找到目标窗口","ERROR",MB_OK);

//wParam为本窗口句柄    
 SendMessage(hWndtarget,WM_COPYDATA,(WPARAM)NULL,(LPARAM)&cds);

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BOOL CMir2Dlg::OnCopyData(CWnd* pWnd, COPYDATASTRUCT* pCopyDataStruct)
{
 // TODO: Add your message handler code here and/or call default
 SetDlgItemText(IDC_INFO, (LPCTSTR)pCopyDataStruct->lpData);

 return CDialog::OnCopyData(pWnd, pCopyDataStruct);
}