其中一个sql查询的是每个session的内存使用情况:
SELECT mg.session_id, mg.requested_memory_kb, mg.granted_memory_kb, mg.used_memory_kb, t.text, qp.query_plan
FROM sys.dm_exec_query_memory_grants AS mg
CROSS APPLY sys.dm_exec_sql_text(mg.sql_handle) AS t
CROSS APPLY sys.dm_exec_query_plan(mg.plan_handle) AS qp
ORDER BY 1 DESC OPTION (MAXDOP 1)