你经历过绝望吗？两次！

2个注意，
一个是优先级重写。利用,里面没有引用，然后是左大于右就排在后面。
bool operator<(mynode ne1, mynode ne2)
{
return ne1.cost > ne2.cost;
}
二是容器的元素每次都应该清除。

#include <iostream>
#include <cmath>
#include<set>
#include<string.h>
#include <queue>
#include <tuple>
#define scanf scanf_s
#define inf 0x3f3f3f3f
#define LL long long
#define mod 100000007
using namespace std;

struct mynode {
    int cost, x, y;
};
bool operator<(mynode ne1, mynode ne2)//参数也可以为引用，值传递
{
    return ne1.cost > ne2.cost;
}
int main() {
    int m, n, T, cost, x, y;
    int vis[104][104];
    int way[][2] = { { 0,  1 },
    { 1,  0 },
    { -1, 0 },
    { 0,  -1 } };
    mynode zhu;
    char c;
    char A[105][105];
    scanf("%d", &T);
    while (T--) {
        priority_queue<mynode> q;
        memset(vis, 0, sizeof(vis));
        int flag = 0;
        scanf("%d%d", &n, &m);
        for (int i = 0; i < n; i++) {
            for (int j = 0; j < m; j++) {
                cin >> A[i][j];
                if (A[i][j] == '@') {
                    zhu = mynode{ 0, i, j };
                    vis[i][j] = 1;
                }
            }
        }
        for (q.push(zhu); !q.empty();q.pop()) {
            mynode now = q.top();
            cost = now.cost;
            if (now.x <= 0 || n - 1 <= now.x || now.y <= 0 || m - 1 <= now.y) {
                flag = 1;
                cout << cost << endl;
                break;
            }                  
            for (int i = 0; i < 4; i++) {
                x = now.x; y = now.y;
                x += way[i][0];
                y += way[i][1];
                if (!vis[x][y] && A[x][y] != '#') {
                    if (A[x][y] == '*') {
                        mynode a2 = mynode{ cost + 1,x,y };
                        vis[x][y] = 1;
                        q.push(a2);
                    }
                    else if(A[x][y]=='.'){
                        mynode a2 = mynode{ cost ,x,y };
                        vis[x][y] = 1;
                        q.push(a2);
                    }
                }
            }
        }
        if (!flag)puts("-1");
    }
}