自信的语言

the language we use programs our brains.

1.language是主语，we也是主语，一个句子中不能存在多个主语。language和we中间必然省略了that。
2.we use 为定语从句，解释说明先行词（主语）
3. 因为主语是第三人称单数，所以program+s

Mastering our language gives us a great degree of mastery over our lives and our destinies.

1.Mastering our language主语
2.gives 主语为第三人称单数
3.在句子中gives谓语动词需要两个宾语，us是间接宾语 ，a great degree of mastery 是直接宾语
4.over介词，over our lives and our destinies.介词短语做句子补充
5.mastery our language 则不对，因为名词不可直接和名词结合

It is important to use the language in the best way possible in order to dramatically improve our quality of life.

1.句子的主语是"It"，指代的是使用语言的行为或事实。
2.不定式短语作主语补足语: "to use the language in the best way possible"是一个不定式短语，作为整个句子的主语补足语，说明了“it”具体指的是什么行为。
3.主系表结构
4.in the best way possible 方式状语，描述使用语言的方式
5.“possible”的作用是形容词，用来修饰名词短语“the best way”，表示以最好的可能方式。具体来说，“possible”在这里强调了使用语言的方式应该是尽可能好的，即达到最佳状态。这种用法增强了句子的表达效果
6.in order to 引导目的状语从句

Even the smallest of words can have the deepest effect on our subconscious mind, which is like a child, and it doesn’t really understand the difference between what really happens and what you imagine. It is eager to please and willing to carry out any commands that you give it ——whether you do this knowingly or not is entirely up to you.
"Try”
It is a small word yet it has an amazing impact upon us. If someone says, “I’ll try to do that” you know that they are not going to be putting their whole heart into it, and may not even do it at all. How often do you use the word try when talking about the things that matter to you? Do you say “I’ll try to be more confident” or “I’ll try to do that” or “I’ll try to call”?
Think about something that you would like to achieve, and say it to yourself in two different ways. Firstly say, “I’ll try to …"and notice how you feel. Next say, “I will do …"and see how you feel.
The latter makes you feel better than the first one, doesn’t it? It gives you a sense of determination, a feeling that it will be done. Listen to the people around you and when they say they will try notice if it gets done or not. Eliminate the word try from your dictionary and see how your life improves.
This is another small word with a big impact. It disempowers us, makes us feel weak and helpless, and damages our self-esteem. It limits our infinite abilities and stifles creativity. Rub it out from your internal dictionary and replace it with something that makes you feel great.
Instead of saying you can% why not say something like “I choose …” or "I choose not to Using words like this allows you to take back your power and to be in control of your life.
Words may appear small and insignificant, yet they can have a deep and lasting effect on us. Mastering your language gives you the power to live whatever life you desire.
What words do you use a lot that disempower you? Make a list of words you commonly use and then write next to them some alternatives you can use. Make these alternatives words that make you feel fabulous, not only about yourself, but about life and what you are doing!