Here was a useful insert sql like this :
insert into `table` (`field1`,`field2`,`field3`) values('value1','value2','value3') on duplicate key update `id`=`id`,`count`=`count`+1;
It means if the values of field1,field2,field3 value1, value2,value3 are exist, it will update the exist row , otherwise , it will insert the row with value1, value2 ,value3.
Before use this you must set `field1`,`field2`,`field3` was unique index.