http://nodex.iteye.com/blog/1488719
http://midcom-p2p.sourceforge.net/
http://www.cppblog.com/peakflys/archive/2013/01/25/197562.html
nat类型检测
http://blog.csdn.net/atoric/article/details/3957771
nat类型检测步骤
http://www.cppblog.com/w2001/archive/2009/01/14/72012.html
nat类型检测步骤
http://www.cnblogs.com/netlife/archive/2008/10/10/1308249.html
stun client
http://www.codeproject.com/Articles/18492/STUN-Client
stun turn ice
http://www.cnblogs.com/ishangs/p/3816689.html
im开源
http://blog.csdn.net/jptaozhantaozhan/article/details/7049566
libjingle
http://www.360doc.com/content/13/0206/09/9200790_264490236.shtml
xmpp
http://www.open-open.com/doc/view/313c11a05d2049628f8e0c9d47588cd1