1) #aptitude remove se-toolkit
2) #aptitude purge se-toolkit
3) #aptitude clean
4) #aptitude autoclean
5) #aptitude search se-toolkit
now, navigate to the directory you want to place your git clone
and enter this in your bash:
6) #git clone https://github.com/trustedsec/social-engineer-toolkit/ set/
it has a installer script written in python, run it and you will have a working se-toolkit in your system.
I think you have to update manually since the installation is not done via the package manager.
PS:http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20130613224923AA01UWX