自定义控件datagrid行点击事件传递到父窗口

自定义控件 

前台代码

        <DataGrid x:Name="grid" Width="800" Height="800">
            <DataGrid.RowStyle>
                <Style TargetType="{x:Type DataGridRow}">
                    <EventSetter Event="GotFocus" Handler="DataGridRow_GotFocus"/>
                </Style>
            </DataGrid.RowStyle>
            <DataGrid.Columns>
                ......
            </DataGrid.Columns>
        </DataGrid>

后台代码

public partial class CustomControl: UserControl
    {
        public CustomControl()
        {
            InitializeComponent();
        }
        public event EventHandler<MyRowEvent> RowClick;
        private void DataGridRow_GotFocus(object sender