解决方法:
<el-table-column property="database" label="数据库" width="300">
<template slot-scope="scope">
<el-select :key="scope.$index" v-model="selectMultipleValue[scope.row.businessLine+scope.row.sourceType]" multiple placeholder="请选择" @change="handleEvents">
<el-option
v-for="item in scope.row.database"
:key="item.value"
:label="item.label"
:value="item.value"
/>
</el-select>
</template>
</el-table-column>
handleEvents() {
console.log(this.selectMultipleValue)
this.selectMultipleValue = Object.assign({}, this.selectMultipleValue)
this.$forceUpdate()
}