从联系人表中查询联系人数量填到用户表的联系人数字段
UPDATE xq_user
SET user_contact_count = ( SELECT COUNT( xq_user_contact.contact ) FROM xq_user_contact WHERE xq_user_contact.user_id = xq_user.user_id AND (xq_user_contact.contact_status = 3 OR xq_user_contact.contact_status = 4) )