$("#edit_gender").val(data.patient.gender)
<select class="form-control" id="edit_gender" name="gender">
<option value="2">--请选择--</option>
<option value="1">男</option>
<option value="0">女</option>
</select>
$("#edit_gender").val(data.patient.gender)
<select class="form-control" id="edit_gender" name="gender">
<option value="2">--请选择--</option>
<option value="1">男</option>
<option value="0">女</option>
</select>