oracle sqlserver 插入数据存在更新，不存在插入

Oracle

merge into IN_PORT_TEST d using dual 
on ( d.Listno= ? ) 
when not matched then insert (Listno,stano,dt)  values ( ?,?,to_date(?,'yyyy-mm-dd hh24:mi:ss')) 
when matched then update set stano=?,dt=to_date(?,'yyyy-mm-dd hh24:mi:ss')

sqlserver

if not exists (select 1 from t where id = 1)
insert into t(id, update_time) values(1, getdate())
else
update t set update_time = getdate() where id = 1