父组件拿到子组件的值

方法一：
子

<el-button @click="secondCahnge()">确定</el-button>
 secondCahnge(){
     console.log(this.ruleForm,'-')
     this.$emit('onSecondChange', this.ruleForm)//事件名，值
      }

父

 <step-second @onSecondChange='onSecondChange' v-show="active==2"> </step-second>
import StepSecond from "./components/stepSecond.vue";     onSecondChange(e){ 
console.log(e+'--------')
}

方法二：ref传值
子

<el-form :model="ruleForm" ref="ruleForm" label-width="100px">

父

<step-second ref='second'  v-show="active==2"> </step-second>
mounted(){console.log(this.$refs.second.ruleForm,"------");
    },