解决办法:给el-select加 @change="$forceUpdate()" 强制刷新,就解决了
<el-form-item label="抄表员" prop="meterName">
<el-select
v-model="form.meterName"
placeholder="请选择抄表员"
style="width: 600px"
:disabled="disabledDetails"
@change="$forceUpdate()"
>
<el-option
v-for="item in meterUser"
:key="item.userId"
:label="item.userName"
:value="item.userName"
>
</el-option>
</el-select>