Videos in sequence:
Swarthmore College - Diana Davis
video 1: tangent planes
video 2: Differentiability of multivariable functions
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MIT - Herbert Gross
video : Partial Derivatives, Lecture 3: Directional Derivatives
(Also proved the gradient has the maximum slope)
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Technion - Aviv Censor
video: 34 - Differentiability
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We have two commonly used definitions of differentiablity. They are equivalent and can be derived from each other.
proof: video 苏德矿 微积分 多元函数的全微分及可微的形式
You can also gain the intuition from this video 蔡高厅 高等数学(下)Lecture 9