【解决方案】利用VisualTreeHelper寻找对象的子级对象

批量修改子对象的外观，利用VisualTreeHelper来完成

 private void ListItem_MouseLeftButtonDown(object sender, MouseButtonEventArgs e)
 {
            List<Border> borderList = FindVisualChild<Border>(对象名);
            foreach (Border myBorder in borderList)
            {
                myBorder.BorderThickness = new Thickness(0);
            }
}

/// <summary>
/// 利用VisualTreeHelper寻找对象的子级对象
/// </summary>
/// <typeparam name="T"></typeparam>
/// <param name="dependencyObject"></param>
/// <returns></returns>
List<T> FindVisualChild<T>(DependencyObject dependencyObject) where T : DependencyObject
{
            try
            {
                List<T> TList = new List<T> { };
                for (int i = 0; i < VisualTreeHelper.GetChildrenCount(dependencyObject); i++)
                {
                    DependencyObject child = VisualTreeHelper.GetChild(dependencyObject, i);
                    if (child != null && child is T)
                    {
                        TList.Add((T)child);
                        List<T> childOfChildren = FindVisualChild<T>(child);
                        if (childOfChildren != null)
                        {
                            TList.AddRange(childOfChildren);
                        }
                    }
                    else
                    {
                        List<T> childOfChildren = FindVisualChild<T>(child);
                        if (childOfChildren != null)
                        {
                            TList.AddRange(childOfChildren);
                        }
                    }
                }
                return TList;
            }
            catch (Exception ee)
            {
                MessageBox.Show(ee.Message);
                return null;
            }
}